Hi Ladies.
I am a bit confused, emotionally.
I feel at peace. I mean, I know my ex abused me, and is still a danger, but I feel at peace. I am not hygienically being affected, if that makes sense. I know I have my own thoughts, my own wants etc. I am due to have a psychological assessment, as is he. I am unsure whether I can just co-parent with him and ask him or his family questions, like I would if he wasn’t an abusive person, but I feel I can. I just don’t want anyone to think I don’t see him as a threat, or he’s not that bad. I just don’t see any need to keep pointing out the dangers, because its not my responsibility. It is the professionals, and if anything happens to my kids (almost especially the one that isn’t his) then it’s not on me, its only on me to comfort them at a later date.
I mean its partially because this person is banning me from getting my children support, and how that looks, but I am a bit confused