Confused

[Thankful]

I’m being mentally abused by my son, he’s nearly (detail removed by Moderator) and I’ve had to put up with him treating me like poo for years. I had to involve police last time to remove him. He moved away,got good job and girlfriend,then they had to move out of the flat they was in, she got pregnant,he asked if they could move back and I stupidly said yes.he gave up his job, hasn’t paid me anything apart from getting bit of gas and electric.i hate living with him,he’s always having a go at me ,they’ve been here (removed by moderator)and now I’m at the end of my tether,doors in the house are all broke I’m a nervous wreck,having breakdowns at work. How can I get my strength back while I’ve no respite from his daily verbal abuse. And how the heck am I supposed to chuck them out while my granddaughter is here. Mind you I don’t get much time with her,I live in my bedroom. I’m so, so very very depressed I just want to fall asleep and not wake up. I know I won’t do anything about that, I’m too much of a coward. I want my life back…please

[Twisted Sister]

Hi Thankful

This sounds awful and I’m sorry that you are suffering so badly. This is your home and you need to not be a prisoner in it. You can make it clear to your daughter-in-law, that her and her child are welcome to stay, but he cannot, because its bad for all of you and wrong for a little child to grow up in such abuse and constant fear.

He doesn’t ever have to come back, he’s made himself homeless. If SS hear of this from anyone they will likely remove the child (wrong as that is, but they won’t tackle the perp, they’ll just take the child if the perp isn’t removed by you).

Once he’s gone you will all get your lives back, you won’t have to spend another day locked in your room.

Well done for writing your post in your desperation, and do keep writing so you can think through a plan for yourself.

Take control of your life back, he needs to learn the hard way that he’s absolutely unacceptable as a human, son, father.

warmest wishes

ts

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