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I feel like I’m going round in circles with my husband – it would seem nothing I say or do is right unless it is what he wants to hear. He is rude to me , short and cross in his moods. If I dare to say something in the wrong tone he pulls me up , tells me I’m being awkward and won’t let me explain , says I’m twisting what I’ve said to suit myself . There is no point trying to give my side as it isn’t listened to. Iconically , he says I don’t listen to him when his way of communicating is ranting to get his point across , it’s accusatory and he constantly blames me for how he feels , if he doesn’t sleep well but I do then I don’t care ( I take medication which makes me sleepy but I do care and am a bag of nerves )
On (day removed by Moderator) I did something to annoy him , I tried to explain , said I was sorry but he didn’t accept it and didn’t speak to me for (removed by Moderator) days . He was acting strangely like deliberately not eating when we had family round , I felt like he was doing it on purpose and acting depressed for effect: that sounds harsh but I’ve seen a pattern in his behaviour and wonder if he is n**********c . I feel like he ‘ punishes ‘ me a lot . Any advice really appreciated. -
Ah, my husband also does that when he’s mad. He’ll ignore me. He won’t even look at me. There have been times when I’ve actually cried in front of him, and he just ignored it. He just played on his phone like I didn’t exist. It made me feel less than human. I’m sorry that happened to you.
The country I live in has “ignoring” listed as emotional abuse. I don’t know about the country where you live.
I’m sorry you’re being hurt. I understand the pain of not being spoken to. I send you hugs, from my country to where-ever you are in the world.
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