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    • #7213

      I decided to cancel the contract he’s been using in my name. I don’t know how to feel about this. I feel it may upset him and I’ve just stoked a fire that didn’t need it. He probably won’t even care and just get one out in his name but it’s a worry. And now I just feel like my mind is running away from me and I’m going through all the what if scenarios. But I know I’m nowhere near as bad as I would have been a few months ago.

    • #7219

      I don’t know the background, but I know that feeling. I end up running decisions like this past nearly everyone – they all say “perfectly reasonable, can’t understand why you don’t just do it “. I can’t admit to them it’s because I’m scared he’ll go nuts. Do you know what? Tumbleweed….No response at all.

    • #7220
      Falling Skys

      Hi xx

      I know the fear of doing the right thing but knowing it might upset them.

      All I can say is you have done the right thing as he could easily run up a huge bill in your name.

      Look as this as a step forward to being independent. And if there is a t*t of tat laugh at his pettiness.

    • #7222

      Thank you both.

      There has been no reaction. And I know I have done the right thing too xx

    • #7252
      Falling Skys

      Hi HS

      Pleased its gone well x

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