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5th October 2018 at 12:32 am #65107TiffanyParticipant
Took on a task I have been avoiding for over a year now, and deleted all documents relating to my ex from my computer (and a lot of other junk too). Not evidence, just general c**p from him using my computer. TV shows, job applications, and everything to do with wedding planning. I feel really good. Just photos to go and he didn’t like me taking photos of him (incase I put them on social media, as that would make it harder for him to cheat on me I suspect). There should be loads of nice photos too. I am going to reward myself for sorting it by printing off my favourites from trips without him.
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5th October 2018 at 7:23 am #65113White RoseParticipant
Well done – I bet the computer runs more efficiently now too.
I love going through my happy photos. As I had to buy a laptop when I left mine is “clean” of him apart from all my well locked away evidence. Might copy you and do some browsing and printing of photos this weekend. Might even buy a new photo frame too x -
5th October 2018 at 9:40 am #65118TiffanyParticipant
I did the same. Wouldn’t have trusted my laptop after I left, but I got someone who knew about computers to copy all the documents and photos onto an old harddrive for me. Which I haven’t touched since I left for fear of triggers. Feels so good to have done it now though, especially as it means I have access to all my old photos.
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8th October 2018 at 7:43 pm #65247AyannaParticipant
I still have all the photos and his stuff on my computer.
I do not know why I cannot delete them.
For the divorce I had to give evidence and I used some of the photos. I chose the ones where he looked ridiculous and unfavourable and provided them for the judge. I had to send the same information to him.
I know that he hated those photos as he is very self-conscious. Just remembering that I did that makes me chuckle. -
8th October 2018 at 11:25 pm #65259TiffanyParticipant
I deleted most of the photos yesterday. I’m still feeling triggered by it. And I still have the big group shots to think about, but most of it is gone. Hundred of photos. Way more than I expected. I am still waiting for the weight off my shoulders feeling. Hopefully it will come. Right now I just feel anxious and a little bit sick.
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