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Ignore there gut feelings? Xx
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Yes 💯 I didn’t acknowledge my intuition I’ve had it since birth but didn’t recognise it for was it was, I was gonna put yes in block capitals but we aren’t allowed in case it comes across as shouting, but I suspect a lot of us on here are what’s known as empaths/hsp’s and our nature is used against us by abusers and our prana/chi/auric field is systematically drained by then to keep us vulnerable and attached to them = abusers/narcs/dark triads/high Mach’s? ? ? 💝🕊💝
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I feel like there is so much more to it though. Its so difficult to follow your gut when there is trauma bonding going on.
Once my ex discarded me, i was apart from
Him for 8 months and felt terrible the whole time, huge anxiety and depression. I thought that meant my body was telling me how happy he made me. That he was a good thing in my life.
We are up against so much. Our gut kind of gets too quiet under all the noise of trauma bond and cognitive dissonance..
I didn’t feel like i was following my gut when i left, my body screamed to go back to him. I had to follow my head, the facts. And perhaps my gut had something to play in it but I couldn’t tell. But I couldn’t trust my feelings, i knew that.
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Yes – this is weird but he smelt wrong to me right from the beginning. I ignored it. I ignored the little red flags. I minimised the abuse. It got worse. I justified it. I thought it was my fault. My kids have been through absolute hell. He is a monster. I blame myself for that still. Today it hurts like the worst pain ever. But I got them out eventually with lots of support from services. I stayed too long. Now we are safe and they are amazing.
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