Hi bd
It’s all being done to make him look the suffering victim.
Mine weight went up to (detail removed by moderator) stone, it didn’t kill him, he goes out on the booze, it hasn’t killed him, he eats junk food it doesn’t kill him.
It’s another way to punish us or to control us.
If possible say you don’t want to know what he’s doing as it’s no longer your business.
Stay strong
FS xx