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    • #91633
      Alittlelost
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      I think i might just be being dramatic and over sensitive. I think i will tell womans aid woman tomro when she calls i dont need her help anymore. Maybe just because im so deeply unhappy in the relationship doesnt nessicarily mean its abuse. I dont know. Im just wasting time and reasources. Im sorry i wont post here again.

    • #91634
      Janedoeissad
      Participant

      Keep posting please, I have not read your other posts but the fact you are on here probably means you suspect abuse.

      I used to think me being unhappy was the reason I interpreted my ex partners behaviour the way I did but actually. He was abusive and it was only when he threatened to physically hurt me that I truly saw it for what it was

    • #91635
      Iwantmeback
      Participant

      Hi, I really know what you’re saying, I too feel like this, A LOT. Think I’ve over dramatised, that it’s me. Whether we have or haven’t isn’t the issue. Any relationship you are in, that causes unhappiness,fear,isolation, those relationships are not healthy for either partner. They become toxic. I cannot believe that there are 10’s of thousands of woman like us, who believe it is us, we’re the ones not wired right. Getting your head around an abuser, there’s no point. Logic does not apply. Being unhappy in a relationship is enough to end it. Please talk over how you are really feeling to your support worker, they don’t judge, know the complexities of abuse. Sending strength and the tightest hug you can bear.
      IWMB

    • #91638
      hop
      Participant

      You’re not being dramatic, or over sensitive. You’re going through a hell of a lot with other
      diagnoses on top of that. Don’t let your mind let you cut yourself off from people who can understand what you’re going through. Please keep posting you deserve help and love too đź’–

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