Due to an incident with my ex he now needs a third party to collect and return our kids. However my ex’s mum is saying she cannot do it anymore because she has a chronic health condition and has given excuses as to why her husband and other son who lives with them cannot do the runs either. She said going forward i should do the runs. I don’t think this is fair. I said no as i do not want to be near their home. Her message was extremely confrontational yet she told me she does not want an arguement and to not make it a bigger deal than it is. She implies that i overreact to everything just like her son. They even undermine the atual incident which led to him needing a third party contact. It is so frustrating. I feel like they are trying to give me orders after everything he has done.