Ex’s family being difficult

[Wildwoodflower]

Hi,

Due to an incident with my ex he now needs a third party to collect and return our kids. However my ex’s mum is saying she cannot do it anymore because she has a chronic health condition and has given excuses as to why her husband and other son who lives with them cannot do the runs either. She said going forward i should do the runs. I don’t think this is fair. I said no as i do not want to be near their home. Her message was extremely confrontational yet she told me she does not want an arguement and to not make it a bigger deal than it is. She implies that i overreact to everything just like her son. They even undermine the atual incident which led to him needing a third party contact. It is so frustrating. I feel like they are trying to give me orders after everything he has done.

[Lisa]

Hi Wildwoodflower,

I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this, it sounds like a really upsetting and frustrating situation.

Could a contact centre be a good option for you do you think? https://naccc.org.uk/

Take care and keep posting,
Lisa

[KIP.]

They’re trying to push your boundaries and I’m wondering if your ex is behind this. Sadly in my experience the perpetrators family will side with him so protect yourself x start as you mean to go on x

[Bananaboat]

Sounds like his mum and him are cut from the same cloth. If he wants to see his kids he needs to find a way, don’t be unreasonable unnecessarily but don’t mend over backwards for them! xx

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