Father’s Day sad

[survivorabuse]

Seeing as it’s Father’s Day today the kids wanted to speak to him so I let them video call him and he told them to f**k off! I now have 2 upset kids. I am missing my own late father who was a wonderful man, totally different to the man I married.

[iliketea]

Oh no, that is so sad. Sorry. Xx

[survivorabuse]

Thank you.

My youngest walks around saying dada. It’s heartbreaking but it’s what he’s like normally with me, but he has transferred it to the kids. At least we no longer live with him.

Would I be justified in keeping them away from him?

[Weepingwillow]

So sorry 💕. It hurts more when they are mean to the kids doesn’t it 😢
I’m missing my dad too , he was an amazing father xx

[survivorabuse]

It’s today that highlights to me comparing the two of them and what a loving father my dad was. I wished there was a way to get to him and tell him just how much I love him and wished he was still here.

Sorry maudlin today

I was fuming with him as he makes out just how much he loves the children but today tells me he’s trying to use them to get us back home.

[Anonymous]

You made a mistake by calling him and that’s fine. We all do it in the beginning but how dare him say that to your kids, his kids! Unforgivable to me. That should show you once and for all what he is, who he is and your kids need to be protected from that. So just get back up on your horse here, dust yourself off and keep going in the direction you are already going in. No looking back, no tolerating this from him. There are consequences to such actions now, right? Make your boundaries firm and don’t let him storm your gates with his poison either. NO welcome sign out front for him to do so, okay? Your father hears you, btw. He’s with you. He’s part of you so you did have a good role model as to what a man should be. I am very glad you had that. You are quite lucky.

[survivorabuse]

Thank you

My dad was the best. He never let me down and was always there for me.

He won’t be seeing the kids and as for calling him, no. I won’t answer the phone to him.

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