Feeling Brilliant for the first time in ages

[Janedoeissad]

This last couple of days its been like a cloud has lifted and I feel so much less anxious and stressed.

All the same problems are there and nothing has changed but I just feel better. Its like the last of the fog has lifted.

Long may this last. I feel free finally. I’m looking forward not back, I’m planning MY future the way I want it. And that feels pretty good.

I genuinely do not miss him. I got an email the other day and just got irritated. So I ignored it. Him just emailing gives me the change to have that choice.

So for all those still stuck. Know that your current situation is not your final destination.

Big Hugs J xx

[Freedomfighter]

Hi Janedoeissad,
Brilliant to hear you’re finally getting there and feeling so good! Just what I needed to hear. I’m about to start divorce process and afraid of what lengths he’s going to go to trying to stop me. I’m going to hold on to your words when I’m having a wobble
This won’t last forever and I will eventually feel free and happy! Thanks. Enjoy your newly found freedom
Girl Power 😁

[Anabela]

Hello Janedoeissad. Happy to read your post ☺☺☺ my moods still fluctuates so any positive post ia very useful!! X*x

[freedomtochoose]

Thank you so much for posting this.
Here, I got sucked back in to old stuff last week – as I could not avoid dealing with extended family – but in a way maybe it was also because I was strong enough to face it.
Freedom fighter
If you want to start a separate thread about your divorce – I would be quite happy to try to support you in that – I went through one – it is (detail removed by Moderator) years ago now – but I can say I am happily divorced and single now.
All best

[Janedoeissad]

Thanks for the messages ladies, I thought this feeling might pass and the old stressed feelings would return but they haven’t so far.

I haven’t been away from him long but I already struggle to remember what it felt like being stuck in that house with him. I was reading back through old text messages the other day. I had been texting a friend every time he kicked off. God things were terrible. I feel sad when I read comments from me about how low I felt.

Onwards and upwards. I am glad I didn’t get to see half a decade with that horrible man…I nearly did.

Big hugs ladies, your current situation is definitely not your final destination.

J xx

[starryeyed]

‘Your current situation is definitely not your final destination’ – thanks JaneDoe for that, it is what I needed to hear 🙂 <3

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