Feeling Guilty

[Befree]

Why do I feel guilty for calling police on my now ex boyfriend he took my fone said I was a (detail removed by moderator) I’m not! This was just another one of his accusations I had been accused of,so yeah he took my phone wouldn’t give it back thankfully I had a lock on it as he’s done this before! He turns anything into an imaginary story he can accuse me of…he said I was sleeping with my (detail removed by moderator),I couldn’t go out of sight without him asking why I was taking so long,so when took my phone this time and he went through my (detail removed by moderator) looking for (detail removed by moderator) I should imagine to try and convince himself he’s right in what he’s accusing me of …I called the police, after a few attempts on trying to get my phone back off him i managed to get him out my house with quick thinking god must have been on my side cus my daughter was sleeping so she didn’t hear much I woke her up to use her phone.Police came I told them I didn’t want to press charges but they said cus of him taking the fone that’s enough to arrest him,later on he must have (detail removed by moderator)!I’m currently in the process of an induction I just don’t understand why I feel so guilty for calling the police I know it’s the right thing to do.I gave him so many chances to give it back he wouldn’t!

[Lisa]

Hi Befree,

Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. Its not easy calling the police and that must have taken you a lot of courage. It can feel like a really scary step and its understandable you are having conflicting feelings around this.

You can’t manage the behaviour of someone who is choosing to be abusive and you shouldn’t have to. I would suggest contacting your local domestic abuse service for more ongoing support with what is happening.

Best Wishes

Lisa

[Befree]

I’m currently in the process of trying to get a non- molestation order just feeling anxious feel guilty for this too! like I’m doing something wrong it’s horrible because apart of me still has loves  him,I still care about him that’s just crazy for someone who has no care for me.I just want all this over and done with so i can move forward.Has anybody else had these emotions when going through this?

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