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    • #21913
      SilkyHalide
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      I can’t shake myself into action. I’m not sleeping very well and had a mild anxiety attack yesterday for first time in a while.
      I know things will work out but I miss my children and worry how they are.
      They seem happy to see me only once in a blue moon. I’m confused – maybe they don’t value me much. I don’t understand. I know all the reasoning on a rational view and manipulation is key but I can’t help feeling such a failure as a mum. And hearing his voice telling me I’m lazy and pathetic and a disgrace

    • #21922
      Ayanna
      Participant

      You know what you are. Stick to that and do not let him take control of your mind.
      Children can be manipulated too.
      I have a case in my family. Where I am from women alienate the children from the fathers and the fathers never see them again and ss support the women doing this. It is a forever situation because the children are made to hate their fathers.
      Here this is not so drastic. I hope you can see them more regularly again.

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      Confused123
      Participant

      Hey Hun

      Don’t listen to his words they say anything to break our self esteem

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