Hi there, take some deep breaths. Get the house on the market then take a step back. You know why he’s putting pressure on you. I think once you have made the decision, it will get a little easier but he will always be putting pressure on you while you are in contact because he wants to keep the hook he has. Tell yourself that once you are unhooked and totally free you will look at the situation again. Your main concern should be untangling any legal ties and that’s what is so very difficult and expensive to get out of. This isn’t going to happen overnight. It could take months or years to sell and in the meantime he will be putting you under undue pressure. He should be respecting your wishes and making this easy for you if he cared at all. Stay strong. You will get there in the end X