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[Tiredmum654]

Hi, tired mum of 2. Me and hubby have had issues for years. But an incident has left us with police interviews and social services. Myself and the kids have been interviewed and he has his soon. Hes dragging it out. He may be charged. I know I need to leave. But it’s so hard. Part of me knows I shouldn’t need the police to leave him. But I don’t have much support and still very much in the “It’s not so bad” mindset. My main problem is the kids. I have depression and little motivation so I’ll be struggling with then pretty much on my own. I guess I don’t really need advice, just wanted to say hi and I’ll be working my way through this forum.

[Lisa]

Hi Tiredmum654,

Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing with us. I hope you find the forum a safe and supportive place to be with others who understand.

If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service. They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat service here.

Do keep posting to let us know how you’re getting on.

Best wishes,

Lisa
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[Breadandbutterpudding]

I just wanted to say hi, I’ve just joined and I’ve struggled for a long time to see it as abuse. I’ve gone no contact which is hard but my brain is making sense for the first time in ages. Keep a diary hidden on your phone. Take photos, secret recordings, anything you can

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