First weekend alone

[Peonylove]

So this is my first weekend alone since we split and I can see it’s going to be a long one. I have very little planned, my close friends are busy with their own lives and because my circle is so small I don’t have that many people to do things with. I know you’ll all tell me to enjoy this alone time and focus on myself but I really don’t want that, or at least to hear that. I keep thinking about him and what we could be doing…lazy morning in bed, walking the dog, eating out, planning our summer. It all feels hopeless, lonely and sad today. Do I wallow in it or do I need a kick up the backside??xx

[Bananaboat]

Key here is ‘what you could be doing’ but is that what you would actually have been doing? Not on the good days but on the days when he was nasty.

Social media makes us think weekends should be friends, parties and events but most aren’t. So this one is quiet, it doesn’t mean they all will be, plus peace after the madness of abuse is something to savour initially xx

[Hazydayz]

I love your Comforting and wise words Banaboat👍 That’s great support 💞

[Hazydayz]

I’m sorry your feeling it today Peonylove, how about a spot of sunshine outdoors with me, under that blue sky🌤️🛩️
Not a wallow or a kick up the backside!

[Hazydayz]

P s. Another idea!
You could always… If you prefer? Enjoy a lazy morning in bed tomorrow, walk the dog, eat out afterwards while skipping through the summer edition of local events
& what’s on?
Why don’t you?

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