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    • #40541
      Alicenotichains
      Participant

      Has anyone seen this new music video for Refuge? It’s our story. (detail removed by Moderator) Wow. X

    • #40543
      KIP.
      Participant

      Just watched it. Had me in tears. It’s very good but I’ve never seen it advertised. The bit with the shadow of the man in the window was spot on. I could even tell by the sound of his foot steps what kind of a mood he was in. Looking back I can’t believe I lived like that. And yes I’ve grown…….

    • #40548
      Alicenotichains
      Participant

      I thought it was so accurate. When she first tried to walks away with her own umbrella and her head held high and then the wind blew her umbrella away.And the invisibility that she carries around because of the abuse. And then when the lady at the end offered her an umbrella and her world started to spin. That is me, right now. My world is spinning but I am going to take the help and walk away with my head held high. Thank you Refuge and Frances for this important video.

    • #40558
      iwillbeok
      Participant

      I cried and cried…

      This took me right back to just before i escaped- i was in the shops & felt numb, invisible, like an actor playing her part. How could the world keep on moving on? How could people not see written as clear as day that i was in so much emotional agony? That there was a shadow waiting in my window for me to get home? That the alcohol I was buying was intended to get me drunk…

      Still crying…

    • #40562
      SunshineRainflower
      Participant

      I saw the video too and thought it was great. I remember when I met my ex’s parents I had a strange out of body experience, like I was a ghost floating away and that my soul was fading, like the woman in the video. I felt so unhappy and like I was playing a role I shouldn’t be playing but at the time I didn’t understand why as it was before my epiphany that he was abusive. I hope it helps other women to get out of these terrible relationships.

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