My fiance tells me on a daily basis how he brings his contribution to the relationship by cooking at night. The only reason he cooks is because he feels I cannot make the food the way he wants it and because he like the taste of his own food. Now if I ask him to do something, even something silly as taking the trash out, he tells me he does more than enough
This is extremely frustrating. He is just trying to blind you so that you may think he is contributing in the relationship. I know it is difficult but just turn a blind eye. If he thinks you are not noticing what he is doing, he might just do more.
Thankyou for that womanineed,they make such a big thing of the smallest thing they do and there is always an ulterior motive behind what they do,I try not react as much as i can,I see him looking at me for a reaction but even tho I may feel one, I act as though not moved at all