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      Stay or leave

      I am in a position I can’t get out of. He is controlling me. He is a gambler. He loses all his money. He then has terrible mood swings. I feel the brunt. Nice if he is winning and has money.
      Nasty if he has not got any money. I get shouted at. Doors slammed. Whispers under breath.
      Belittled. One extreme to the other. I don’t know what to do
      Feel worthless. Support network are aware of my situation
      No one can see past nice side.

    • #129854

      You can get out of this. One tiny step at a time. Do you have support from women’s aid? If they can’t see past his nice side then they are not part of your support network.

    • #129865

      Why is it that you think you cannot get out of the position you are in? Is he keeping you there against your will or do you think you have a sense of duty to stay. If your “support network” knows your situation as Kip says they are not supporting you. Reach out on here and I am sure that you will get more information as to how to get the help you need for the situation you find yourself in.

      Take care of you, 🌻

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