He never leaves

[Highfive]

Hi there, he just never leaves the house! I want so desperately to leave as pretending and walking around on egg shells is exhausting. But he just won’t leave the place and if he does he is out with me!
My family and friends just want to come in and come in get what i need and leave but I can’t face him like that!

[Highfive]

Does not dies sorry

[Ayanna]

Hi, does he have any friends or family he could visit, so that you can have the house for yourself a little while?

[Confused123]

HI Hun

If he wont leave, then u leave, i was in same scenario, he would never leave the house, said i couldnt have it either so i found myself my own place to rent , my hardest bit was getting both kids to leave with me but they did in end

[Highfive]

I have tried suggesting he go here or there but he just not wanting to go anywhere! He has 1 friend and who he never see’s but he is close with his family! He knows something is going on as since i spoke to the children’s centre he has been really nice, just feel stuck because he is being nice so feel like I can’t leave!
I am going, just need to pick the right time!

[WalkerInTheRain]

If you’ve got family and friends that are willing to help, have you thought about removing some belongings a little at a time and store them with them?
To be honest, I thought I’d miss some of my possessions more than I do.
As long as you have some clothes to stand up in and your ID, the rest is just ‘stuff’.

[Highfive]

Hey, i am sneaking bits that I can’t replace out and go from there! Just going to take bits and pieces!

[Confused123]

HEY HUN

NOTHING WRONG IN THAT AT ALL, JUST PRE PACK AND TAKE WHAT U CAN WHEN U CAN, DO U KNOW I HAD MY BAGS ALL PRE PACKED FOR ABOUT 10 WEEKS , MY PLAN WAS TO LEAVE WITHIN 12 WEEKS , I WAS JUST WATTING FRO KEYS TO =RENT HOUSE BUT WAS ALWAYS ON GUARD INCASE HE THREW ME OUT AT ANY MOMENT , MOST IMPORTNATLY GET YOUR DOCUMENTS READY

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Thanks for the g8 advice and support

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