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Hi, I’ve joined for support. I’m not sure why I’ve titled my name as free fro abuse. I’m still being emotionally abused by my soon to be ex husband through our children. I’m struggling. I left him in (Detail removed by Moderator). It wasn’t until (Detail removed by Moderator) that I realised I’d been completely emotionally, sexually and financially abused throughout our (Detail removed by Moderator) year relationship. I’m still trying to come to terms with it all. Thanks for allowing me to join. Im hoping to gain strength from other survivors.
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Ex used to control me thru kids. Read about parallel parenting. Mine scared me for ages with threats of court years over divorce. I understand now he did it do he could control he and I had to do what he wanted or the threats would start.
I changed the dynamic and get none of that now. I set a strict schedule for visitation. No helping him out and bending over backwards anymore. He fits around us. I dmhave not spoken to him directly in years. Never will. All my text purely to tell him where and when to pick up our child. I am in control of schedule.
If he or his gf get unpleasant by text. I save them and ignore ignore.
I felt for years after I left he still controlled my actions and he contributes nothing positive to our kids. I am the responsible parent. I tell him nothing apart from what I want.
Only correspond reference kids. Hang up and block him of he starts. You have a right to live in peace. Set new lines and if he fights it and has a tantrum block him x
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