Hi, i`m new

[bluebird28]

Hi there my 2nd post here so far so im new, i am waking up and realising i am being controlled plus the rest, (getting help now) since i have said we are separating and divided the house, my husband is taking my daughter out more and spending time with her, he wouldnt normally and would sit at his pc, is this him taking control or something? trying to get her on his side or something?  he hardly bothered before, i was the one always taking her out yet it seems he has taken over now

[Lisa]

Hi bluebird28,

Thank you for sharing with us, I hope it is helping to post on the forum. Yes, unfortunately children can be used as part of control tactics by abusive people which can be really difficult to see. In case you need to have your rights and options clarified regarding child contact to help with planning, the Coram Children’s Legal Centre provide free legal resources with advice and information on all aspects of family, child and education law including relationship breakdown. They can be contacted on 0300 330 5480 and through their webchat service- Coram

Keep posting when you can.

Best wishes,

Lisa

[bluebird28]

Thank you, i am learning and understanding more now, its hard though taking it all in, i`m taking baby steps right now, but getting there

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