Via my eldest, I stupidly spoke with him as he wanted to discuss finances civilly , I thought to save legal costs this might speed things up , but as always with them turns into argument and ended up calling him abuser and his family then put phone down as he got abusive bk . He is now still chatting with eldest about one of his police case and is trying to talk to me about son case , am keep refusing to speak to him but he is forwarding message via son that I need to speak to him to discuss case , wasn’t expecting this how do I deal with this , am dreading that he
Will be there when I have to go with my son to report for bail , omg what if we end up arguing and he makes it about us 🙄