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      The system meant to help has left me feeling gaslit. I am unable to process and move on. I’m forced to believe it’s in my head. I’m torn between my heart ties of ‘good’ memories and I can’t accept that he is those other things. I can’t, I must send my child. He can’t be those things if my precious child is in his care. It must be me, it’s in my head.

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      Hi Ocean,

      Thank you for sharing with us. I hope it has helped to post on the forum about how you are feeling. Abuse can be very confusing as there can be ‘good’ times as well as the abusive behaviours. Try not to doubt yourself- there is support here from people who understand how overwhelming this can all be.

      Keep posting when you can.

      Best wishes,


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        Thank you for your reply.

    • #167431

      Hi Ocean, I’m sorry for what you are experiencing. I don’t have young children maybe some ladies on here who have will help but my advice would definitely be to go to the police if you feel your child may be in danger. Keep posting and take care xx

      • #167654

        Thank you for your comment.

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