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    • #12026
      SilkyHalide
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      I’m beside myself
      They may as well be living with a teenager. He’s condoning thier teenage rudeness and backing up and enabling thier view I’m being unreasonable not just letting them use me as a doormat.
      They are distress and I can’t do anything about it. And he’s rubbing his hands together in glee he won again.

    • #12045
      Serenity
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      He’s trying to get a reaction by being devil’s advocate, to make you feel unsupported and in the wrong. My ex did this all the time. They would rather pit themselves against you than be supportive.

      He’s hoping you will react, so don’t fall in to the trap. Feign ignorance and lack of interest. Honestly, grey rock method. Works every time x

    • #12050
      SilkyHalide
      Participant

      Thanks Serenity

      Things improved but problem is I cant do grey rock to teens to.

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