in last few months I’ve had begging saying he will get help then f. Of. We can have some sort of carry on together. Then if I wanted him I should apologize. How a lot of men would of given up on me years ago cor evicting him. How I should respect him. I were controlling. I’m full of anger. Why can’t we be civil meaning he’s to come into my house. He will help me out but a lot of men would tell me to f of. I’ve eroded the relationship by telling him to leave…list goes on x
Cut him out of your life.
You need to go zero contact as I said in the other post.
What he says is what all abusers say. Mine said similar things. He just wants to keep your confidence down so that he can control you.
You do not need to respect him. He does not deserve any respect.
The person who needs to be respected is YOU.
You need to respect yourself and you need to stand up to anyone who does not respect you.
He is the one who has to apologize.
But anyway, go zero contact. Your life will be happier. x*x