Husband using disability as a form of abuse

[Lizziecat]

Does anyone experience their partner using their disability against them. Mine accuses me of faking, being a hypochondriac and lying to drs. Tells me there is nothing wrong with me even though I have an undisputed diagnosis. He mimics me in pain and refuses to help around the house and then rages at me for not asking for help. Then uses that as proof of me faking. He doesn’t feed our pets and then blames me for not asking for help. I can feed them but he does nothing. I am in a no win situation and I am shattered. I work through pain but he has no empathy, I don’t want sympathy but consideration.

[Lisa]

Hi Lizziecat

I just wanted to show you some support. It is very unfair for your partner to say these things, he should be helping you and supporting you but instead he uses your disability against you.

You must be exhausted from all of this, keep posting as we are all here for you.

Lisa

[True2myself]

I am going through this. I have a disability and I feel it’s easy for him to attack that. It’s very draining and mentally torture. Talking in these forums really really help to calm your mind so keep doing this. I’m sorry your going through this. ♥️

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