I have compiled a folder, with a five page statement, to be taken to the police. I feel like I am screaming inside. I have been so worried about my kids being abused by my ex, overlooking that although he used the kids, he abused me by using them. I matter in that equation. and when I press charges professionals cant say that he is great. They will have to accept that I was reacting for a reason, and will feel pretty d**n stupid for supporting him as much as they did.