Hi HaPea,
This sounds incredibly frustrating and very typical of an abuser. Deliberately doing the thing because he’s been told not to in order to upset you and ruin your nice time. I hope that the professionals are able to sort it out for you and it doesn’t cause too big an issue. I also hope that you’ve managed to enjoy at least parts of your time away.
Take care and keep posting (even if just to say “aaaaaargh!”),
Lisa