I don’t know how to end it

[Ariel]

I know that I’m not going to get over the things he’s done. We visited his family and I see how he was crying around them making out that our problems are all taking a toll on him.
He’s blaming my son for all the stress and anxiety he’s got now. Where as my son has told him what he thinks of him and how he behaves.
Every now and then things get really good and I think this will be ok. Then he does something that upsets me so I moan about it and then it’s my fault for causing a row.
I know I have to end this but I don’t know how to do it when I still love him

[Lisa]

Hi Ariel,

Thank you for your post. Im sorry to hear about your situation. Its really dificult to navigate this when you still have feelings and holding onto the hope that things will get better. When it does feel good it can create a false sense of security- it hurts more when abuse starts again you feel betrayed and lied to.

Its important you take things at your own pace-keep reaching out to those who understand and support you.

Best Wishes

Lisa

[Ariel]

Thankyou xxxxx

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