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      Ariel
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      So anyone that remembers seeing my posts. I was so confused if my partner was taking drugs, stealing, lieing and much more.
      I did something wrong and looked at his phone and found out he has been using and (detail removed by Moderator). Also talking to another woman.
      When I told him what I did he went white and I haven’t heard a single thing from him.
      I don’t know how someone can just have a double life and not even an acknowledgment or sorry.
      All the gaslighting and saying that my sons had a vendetta against him when it’s just because they saw him for who he is.
      I’m devastated

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      Bananaboat
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      Sorry for what you found & how you feel right now, but remember this & what you found as he’s probably going to return and gaslight you. My ex focused on the fact I’d seen his phone & broken his trust etc, ignoring the cheating, lies, drugs etc. It’s ok to feel shock, anger, sadness etc, maybe even a touch of guilt with the kids so allow yourself to feel those and take a minute to decide your next steps. You’ve got this x

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