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      betterdays
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      My exes niece y.day outside (detail removed by Moderator) when I called in with my son.she were stood there with her son in the pram. She saw me coming towards her she gave me the most revolting look ever!!!! Looking out of her eye corners at me as in total disgust. I thought iys more than obvious uve only heard one version. God knows what he’s said it’s obviously lies. He’s a total disgrace. It puzzles and hurts me when he can’t mention his only son. I know exactly what game he’s playing. He’s thinking because I caved in before after (detail removed by Moderator) weeks I’m going to do the same but I’m not. I want nothing to do with him he brings nothing to my life bit misery.he tried (detail removed by Moderator) weeks ago saying how he wanted to help me. That were just excuse to get a foot in the door….X

    • #17860

      Hi betterdays, I noticed I was getting the cold shoulder from all of his family & friends just before we split, I had no idea why. It was so hurtful I had never wronged any of them in fact i was really good to them. The lies that he must have told them were just plain nasty, pure lies about me and my character. 😰

      • #17861
        betterdays
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        Hi healthy archive. Yes it’s terrible. They have no right to speak about us. My exes family are extremely dysfunctional and are in no position to point the finger at anybody. I’m kind of getting to the stage now we’re I’m thinking stuff him. I had a meltdown Sunday. But did my first counselling session y.day. and felt tonnes better. I have to shake him of. Stop him taking my headspace. X

    • #17864

      I know. I am trying desperately hard to get him and it out of my thoughts,it is not easy. I am currently on holiday in such a beautiful location & i cannot stop these automatic intrusive thoughts filling my mind ,of someone who at the time I knew him was far from special, I would say even less than Mr average.meditation seems to help. X*x

    • #17865

      I like your mantra “stop him taking my head space ” I, m going to write that down i think it may help me😊

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