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(detail removed by moderator) but he would ask me something and whenever I answer he straight away would tell me to shut up, but he made it look like a joke. To me it wasn’t a joke. He was very sarcastic all of our way back home too. Then at home when I went to sleep with our child something happened that I wasn’t aware of and he got angry at me, it wasn’t even in my control, but in his head he made it as if I did it on purpose. When this happened I was asleep!! (detail removed by moderator) I did. He’s been asleep since, but for some reason I have a bad feeling. I know he will be in one of his nasty moods again, but I did email Women’s Aid and hopefully I can get a safety plan sorted asap.
I am so so tired of everything, feel like I don’t want to do anything.
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Hello Blueberryfield,
This sounds like very psychologically manipulative behaviour. Sadly it’s really common for abusers to minimise verbal abuse by dismissing it as a joke, and it sounds like he is gaslighting you by blaming you for something that happened whilst you were asleep.
I hope you were able to make contact for some support today, a safety plan sounds like a good idea.
Take care and keep posting,
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