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      Cortado
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      Had been with my partner for about (detail removed by Moderator) years. He kept leaving for months at a time and returning out of the blue like nothing had happened. We argued because I said he was cheating, heard him on the phone talking to a woman. He would always blame me, say I was paranoid. After (detail removed by Moderator) months of him being away I finally had the courage to end it. I was so confused,hurt and upset when he did message saying that he loved and missed me. I spend all my time thinking about him as I loved so much. I know he is going to be angry and has sent me (detail removed by Moderator) voice notes and I’m too scared to open them. He’s been in prison for violence and other things and I’m worried about he will do. He still is in contact with ex criminals.

    • #169274
      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi Cortado,

      Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. That must have taken you a lot of courage- your safety is really important. You are doing the right thing by not opening the voice notes- any contact from him will be about manipulating you or intimidating you.

      do contact your local domestic abuse service if you haven’t already- they should be able to provide you with ongoing support.

      Best Wishes

      Lisa

    • #169323
      Cortado
      Participant

      Hi Lisa

      I was so curious to find out what he had said and listened to them. The first one said (detail removed by Moderator). The second one was horrible, he swore and said that I should (detail removed by Moderator). He was so angry yet I feel guilty thinking that I have hurt him.

      Best wishes,
      Cortado

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