This topic contains 14 replies, has 13 voices, and was last updated by  [email protected] 7 months, 1 week ago.

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  • #97529

    Hi ladies,
    I left my abusive husband this morning, and it’s evening and I’ve not gone back..

  • #97530

    Good for you!! Stay strong and stay safe 💖 I know that you can do this, well done 💖

  • #97532

    Thank you Freedomfries01..
    Early days yet but it’s such a hard thing..

  • #97533

    That’s amazing news! You can do this. Stay strong and positive. One step at a time ❤️

  • #97535

    In your new place Woolly!!! Will feel like you’re staying in a hotel at first for a bit, but you will get used to it, especially as you start to make it ‘my home’. Here’s to new beginings! x*x

  • #97536

    Well done Woolly, this is great news. One day at the time. One night at the time. You can do this. Keep breathing and take very good care of yourself, e.g. self care and taking walks will help you immensely get over him as this helps you redirect the focus where it should; your own life.
    Start small and add little by little things to do. Eat healthy food. Drink plenty of water. Get enough sleep. Rest enough during the day too. Walk outside. Talk to your friends/family. Decorate your new home. Get counseling. Write here.
    You can be so proud of yourself 💕

  • #97542

    Wonderful news! I’m so happy for you hun you deserve it. Look after yourself and come here if you get a wobble which I hope you don’t. You’ve made a massive step, well done xx 💐

  • #97543

    I’m glad you managed to get out today ! I read your earlier post about not managing to leave. Stay strong 💗

  • #97546

    Amazing news, stay strong and resolute. You will get through this.

  • #97548

    Don’t forget to keep posting. I needed the forum so much in the first few weeks. No one really knows how tough this is until they’ve done it.

    Stay strong ❤️

  • #97550

    Well done. We are here for you. How are you this morning. Remember sometimes we crave what is ‘normal’. Even if that normal is abuse. I hope you’re sitting with your fur babies having a cuppa tea and you’re all safe.

  • #97559
    Main Moderator

    Good Morning Woolly, I wanted to offer some support, I know how much strength this has taken. Just take one step at a time. Keep posting when you can and let us know how you are getting on.

    Best wishes


  • #97851

    This is amazing well done! Feel your freedom now.

  • #97863

    How are you a Woolly? Hope all is ok, let us know xx

  • #97927
     [email protected] 

    Wonderful news! Well done xx

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