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18th May 2024 at 8:54 am #168677
Sungirl
ParticipantI’m really missing him the last few days. Is that normal? He’s now backed off of trying to get back together with me and now I feel sad and miss him
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18th May 2024 at 9:44 am #168678
Texas
ParticipantTotally normal, still feel that way sometimes though it has been some months now and despite the horrible way he treated me. Allow the feelings to come as this is a key part of healing. Sending hugs xx
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19th May 2024 at 9:57 am #168694
Sungirl
ParticipantThanks Texas that’s good to know. Just so hard to break away, I guess I have to be more realistic about how hard it’ll be
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27th May 2024 at 7:07 pm #168866
Bluebirds
ParticipantSending strength your way. It’s going to have ups and downs. Visualise a more happy and confident you. That what I been doing even though I have yet to leave my emotional abusive partner. I hope I can get to that point. Keep going x
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28th May 2024 at 9:12 am #168873
Sungirl
ParticipantThanks all. Am trying to focus on the behaviours he used to re-focus me. I know the brain likes to blot out the bad things, and I think my brain particularly likes to romanticise things
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11th July 2024 at 4:40 pm #169764
Happybelle
ParticipantI miss mine terribly. I have a constant urge to be near him, especially as I hear he’s really made progress in improving his life. Strangely proud of him and decsststongly sad that he made no effort to do this when we were together.
I suspect you are grieving the best bits because I’m sure as heck not grieving the shouting, temper tantrums, thrown objects, theft, silent treatment and manipulation. My brain conveniently forgets about all that. Stay strong 🙂 -
11th July 2024 at 10:46 pm #169777
Bluebirds
ParticipantI’m having these feelings at the moment. I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing. I’m having thoughts of going back. Just go home and watch tv in bed. Sounds awful doesn’t it? Because I guess that’s when it’s OK. I’m feeling so unwell. Honestly don’t know what’s best for me at the moment. Ps. Only been (detail removed by Moderator) since leaving my home.
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