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    • #168677
      Sungirl
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      I’m really missing him the last few days. Is that normal? He’s now backed off of trying to get back together with me and now I feel sad and miss him

    • #168678
      Texas
      Participant

      Totally normal, still feel that way sometimes though it has been some months now and despite the horrible way he treated me. Allow the feelings to come as this is a key part of healing. Sending hugs xx

      • #170019
        janes
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        Hi I’m new to this forum and don’t know how to create a new post. To introduce myself.

    • #168694
      Sungirl
      Participant

      Thanks Texas that’s good to know. Just so hard to break away, I guess I have to be more realistic about how hard it’ll be

    • #168866
      Bluebirds
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      Sending strength your way. It’s going to have ups and downs. Visualise a more happy and confident you. That what I been doing even though I have yet to leave my emotional abusive partner. I hope I can get to that point. Keep going x

    • #168873
      Sungirl
      Participant

      Thanks all. Am trying to focus on the behaviours he used to re-focus me. I know the brain likes to blot out the bad things, and I think my brain particularly likes to romanticise things

    • #169764
      Happybelle
      Participant

      I miss mine terribly. I have a constant urge to be near him, especially as I hear he’s really made progress in improving his life. Strangely proud of him and decsststongly sad that he made no effort to do this when we were together.
      I suspect you are grieving the best bits because I’m sure as heck not grieving the shouting, temper tantrums, thrown objects, theft, silent treatment and manipulation. My brain conveniently forgets about all that. Stay strong 🙂

    • #169777
      Bluebirds
      Participant

      I’m having these feelings at the moment. I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing. I’m having thoughts of going back. Just go home and watch tv in bed. Sounds awful doesn’t it? Because I guess that’s when it’s OK. I’m feeling so unwell. Honestly don’t know what’s best for me at the moment. Ps. Only been (detail removed by Moderator) since leaving my home.

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