I need an excuse so he doesn’t know where I’m going!

[WhiskyRose]

This sounds very sad but I’m struggling! I have been lucky enough to get counselling sessions from a charity to help with my situation, but they can only do evening sessions… I don’t want to tell him where I’m going as it will just blow up… I need some help!

Where can I say I’m going in the evening once a week???

Thanks in advance!

[Trapped.]

Hi there.

Can you tell him it’s counselling but but general counselling?

Hope you’re okay.

Trapped.

[gettingtired]

I was going to suggest what Trapped has said.
Mine thinks I have general counselling which probably delights him as he thinks I’m the problem of everything in life and I need help! When actually it’s private counselling I’m having to help me hopefully unravel myself from the relationship. Good luck x

[Gazebo]

Can I ask how you manage to get the counselling who did you contact? X*x

[Eggshells]

Hi Gazebo

Try Googling “Hub of Help” and also “IAPT” followed by your area eg “IAPT Leeds”.

If your area has IAPT, it is a self referral scheme so no need to go via your GP.

Hub of Help shows mental health charities in your area. xx

[WhiskyRose]

Hi Gazebo, I have it through relate and managed to get funding from the (detail removed by moderator) charity, though I am sure there are lots of other charities. I found the hardest thing was to ask for it but I’m so glad I did. Best of luck x*x

[Eggshells]

There’s also the “Women’s Trust” who offer free counselling to survivors of domestic abuse.

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