This topic contains 3 replies, has 2 voices, and was last updated by  HunkyDory 5 months, 3 weeks ago.

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  • #85110

    Hi everyone,

    I am almost out except that he is still living with me while he finds somewhere new to live. Our relationship is over. I can’t say too much as i don’t want to give too much away but i have already been replaced. I suppose i would like advice as to how to handle still living with him – especially as he has a new victim? Grey rock – is that what its called? Ideally i just want him to go away and never come back but we share a child and I know that i am not that lucky.

    Thank you


  • #85119

    Hi Scarecrow, I just looked up grey rock. Wow. (detail removed by moderator) I only read a few lines but it’s very interesting and will read more later. Is there anywhere you can move to temporarily while he sorts a new place out? Is he actively looking for somewhere? Or dragging his feet? Keep going, you’re almost there x

  • #85184

    Thank you Hunkydory (great name!) I am refusing to leave our house as if I do I am making myself intentionally homeless and there is no way I am going to do that with our child. I am not in physical danger, not that the emotional and physical abuse isn’t bad enough, but I’ve put up with it for many years and I can stand strong for a few more weeks. I don’t advise doing what I’m doing but I can’t let him win any more! I’m thinking of me for the first time in a very long time. Xx

  • #85189

    Well done you. Do you both own the property? If you have a child do you not have some legal right to stay there? What about legal advice or citizens advice, can they help guide you? X

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