Hi LBP, good to hear from you 😊 I’m not new either I just have a different user name. I left my abuser to come to refuge quite some time back. I thought I’d reached a point where I didn’t think I needed to come on here any more, but now I’ve realised that recovery from DV isn’t always linear and there can be setbacks. I’m so glad this forum is here for us all, no matter what stage we are at. X*x