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    • #144398
      Tea-and-biscuits
      Participant

      Hi all. I left today. My child is (detail removed by moderator) so haven’t got them yet but I’m out . I actually did it

    • #144409
      Bananaboat
      Participant

      Well done!! And good luck with the next steps. Enjoy a peaceful evening tonight x

    • #144410
      Twisted Sister
      Participant

      …and another ‘well done/congratulations’ from me! xx

      and….breeeeethe! Peace and calm to you, enjoy your space and look after you, pamper and care for yourself, you have been through so much, and deserve down time now, chossing to do what you want.

      warmest wishes

      ts

    • #144413
      Newgirl
      Participant

      Oh my god well done you so proud x x x x

    • #144417
      Hereforhelp
      Participant

      Well done!! take it slowly, baby steps… you might find that you have a lot of mixed emotions, keep moving forward, hour by hour if need be and keep posting ❤

    • #144431
      Tea-and-biscuits
      Participant

      Thank you so much everyone.. 💓 just put up some flat pack furniture by myself which said needed 2 men.. hum just one women !!!!!

    • #144435
      Hereforhelp
      Participant

      Awesome 💪 love this 😀 ❤️

    • #144436
      Hereforhelp
      Participant

      I just came back from a friend’s party.. I mixed with male/female friends (i wasn’t allowed to do that when i was with him…. or i had to do sexual stuff to get permission to go out)… I had a lovely time and no abusive husband to answer to when I got home 😊 just a cup of tea …life is good today x just thought I would share x

      • #144488
        nbumblebee
        Participant

        Had to reply this is fantastic. I too have to ask permission and have to perform sexually if i want to go out ive stopped going out now as i dont want to have to ask kr perform anymore. This is incredable i am so pleased for you gives me hope this does x*x

      • #144495
        Hereforhelp
        Participant

        Hey nbumblebee 💕 I hope you are coping with your situation? Xx

    • #144437
      Tea-and-biscuits
      Participant

      That’s lovely. I have never been allowed out especially near men so I can appreciate how you feel. Well done for getting your life back x

    • #144440
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Well done tea and biscuits!🥂 here’s to a better future and a new start for you 🥇 👏🏻

    • #144479
      Tea-and-biscuits
      Participant

      Hi everyone . Just an update
      Thank you so much for your well wishes.. hubby hasn’t bothered me and I’m on day (detail removed by Moderator) !!!! Yey. But he has kept my child.. but I’m collecting them (detail removed by Moderator). I have had face time to explain where I am and reassure them it’s not them I left its him and that they are welcome to come. Miss the kids but still feels great to be out and make decisions for my self.

    • #144489
      nbumblebee
      Participant

      Wow go you

      You got this we are right with you. Xxxxxx

    • #144492
      searchingforhope
      Participant

      Well done. Hope things settle for you. Take care xx

    • #144494
      Hereforhelp
      Participant

      Hi Tea-and-biscuits, your partner will be confident in hooking you back as he is with your child/children and will be waiting for you to make contact about that. Have you got support from your local Womans Aid? This is the most dangerous time when you have left, they usually up the abuse (like yours mine didn’t hit me, controlling, gaslighting, coercion and financial/sexual control and he did up all of it).

      Keep posting ❤️

    • #144655
      Tea-and-biscuits
      Participant

      Hi . Thank you. So far he has actually left me alone. But he is playing games around my daughter . Clearly gaining his control needs around her.

    • #144684

      Just wanted to add to the congratulations @Tea-and-Biscuits – so amazing that you’re out of there! Take any small wins you can and make sure your keep praising yourself for your achievement. I hope all goes well for you when you collect your daughter. Stay strong, what an inspiration to her you are!

    • #144773
      Tea-and-biscuits
      Participant

      Thank you. I feel like Im in a happy bubble it’s amazing . I was very fortunate. I had some money tucked away which has made thus easier. I know not everyone is as lucky. Thank you everyone for all your support and well wishes and I really hope you all make it to your happy place . Xx

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