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27th May 2022 at 7:00 pm #144398Tea-and-biscuitsParticipant
Hi all. I left today. My child is (detail removed by moderator) so haven’t got them yet but I’m out . I actually did it
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28th May 2022 at 12:12 am #144409BananaboatParticipant
Well done!! And good luck with the next steps. Enjoy a peaceful evening tonight x
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28th May 2022 at 12:46 am #144410Twisted SisterParticipant
…and another ‘well done/congratulations’ from me! xx
and….breeeeethe! Peace and calm to you, enjoy your space and look after you, pamper and care for yourself, you have been through so much, and deserve down time now, chossing to do what you want.
warmest wishes
ts
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28th May 2022 at 8:39 am #144413NewgirlParticipant
Oh my god well done you so proud x x x x
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28th May 2022 at 9:31 am #144417HereforhelpParticipant
Well done!! take it slowly, baby steps… you might find that you have a lot of mixed emotions, keep moving forward, hour by hour if need be and keep posting ❤
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28th May 2022 at 6:54 pm #144431Tea-and-biscuitsParticipant
Thank you so much everyone.. 💓 just put up some flat pack furniture by myself which said needed 2 men.. hum just one women !!!!!
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28th May 2022 at 10:55 pm #144435HereforhelpParticipant
Awesome 💪 love this 😀 ❤️
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28th May 2022 at 10:57 pm #144436HereforhelpParticipant
I just came back from a friend’s party.. I mixed with male/female friends (i wasn’t allowed to do that when i was with him…. or i had to do sexual stuff to get permission to go out)… I had a lovely time and no abusive husband to answer to when I got home 😊 just a cup of tea …life is good today x just thought I would share x
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30th May 2022 at 7:55 am #144488nbumblebeeParticipant
Had to reply this is fantastic. I too have to ask permission and have to perform sexually if i want to go out ive stopped going out now as i dont want to have to ask kr perform anymore. This is incredable i am so pleased for you gives me hope this does x*x
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30th May 2022 at 9:40 am #144495HereforhelpParticipant
Hey nbumblebee 💕 I hope you are coping with your situation? Xx
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28th May 2022 at 11:13 pm #144437Tea-and-biscuitsParticipant
That’s lovely. I have never been allowed out especially near men so I can appreciate how you feel. Well done for getting your life back x
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29th May 2022 at 4:22 am #144440AnonymousInactive
Well done tea and biscuits!🥂 here’s to a better future and a new start for you 🥇 👏🏻
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29th May 2022 at 10:20 pm #144479Tea-and-biscuitsParticipant
Hi everyone . Just an update
Thank you so much for your well wishes.. hubby hasn’t bothered me and I’m on day (detail removed by Moderator) !!!! Yey. But he has kept my child.. but I’m collecting them (detail removed by Moderator). I have had face time to explain where I am and reassure them it’s not them I left its him and that they are welcome to come. Miss the kids but still feels great to be out and make decisions for my self. -
30th May 2022 at 7:56 am #144489nbumblebeeParticipant
Wow go you
You got this we are right with you. Xxxxxx
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30th May 2022 at 9:06 am #144492searchingforhopeParticipant
Well done. Hope things settle for you. Take care xx
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30th May 2022 at 9:39 am #144494HereforhelpParticipant
Hi Tea-and-biscuits, your partner will be confident in hooking you back as he is with your child/children and will be waiting for you to make contact about that. Have you got support from your local Womans Aid? This is the most dangerous time when you have left, they usually up the abuse (like yours mine didn’t hit me, controlling, gaslighting, coercion and financial/sexual control and he did up all of it).
Keep posting ❤️
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2nd June 2022 at 5:43 pm #144655Tea-and-biscuitsParticipant
Hi . Thank you. So far he has actually left me alone. But he is playing games around my daughter . Clearly gaining his control needs around her.
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3rd June 2022 at 7:03 am #144684KindnessIsntAWeaknessParticipant
Just wanted to add to the congratulations @Tea-and-Biscuits – so amazing that you’re out of there! Take any small wins you can and make sure your keep praising yourself for your achievement. I hope all goes well for you when you collect your daughter. Stay strong, what an inspiration to her you are!
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4th June 2022 at 10:07 pm #144773Tea-and-biscuitsParticipant
Thank you. I feel like Im in a happy bubble it’s amazing . I was very fortunate. I had some money tucked away which has made thus easier. I know not everyone is as lucky. Thank you everyone for all your support and well wishes and I really hope you all make it to your happy place . Xx
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