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Today is a poopy day because of work. Enough said on that score!
Yesterday was one of the weirdest days I have had in a long time. When I was thinking over what happened on my way to work, it seemed like I was recounting some scene from a television drama. Was this really happening? Aside from that, so many other questions and a heap of distrust (which is nothing new). My bicycle (I don’t drive) had a puncture (detail removed by Moderator) ago, so the boyfriend fixed it (I was going to do so after I had made the evening meal). Only he didn’t fix it, as the tyre was flat the next morning (this has happened before and has made me question if it was fixed like he said, or did it have more than one puncture, as I did not see it being fixed?). This is not the weird bit.
I rode my other bike, the road bike (I have a mountain/offroad bike and a road bike) to work and received a phonecall during the morning from the boyfriend about some important bits that hold my mountain bike (detail removed by Moderator) together, being loose. Okay…he then goes on to accuse one of my work colleagues (who I have spoken about, as there was a bit of a to-do at work about a serious issue) of tampering with my bicycle. What?! Now I am worried, why would he accuse a work colleague of tampering with my bike, telling me I could have come off and been hurt or even killed? Why would my work colleague want to hurt me? What sort of a person would do such a thing? Is he (the boyfriend) trying to make me uneasy/offbalance? Did he undo the bits and hope I would come off and hurt myself, then think better of it and make himself look like the hero for discovering the loose bits? Am I a crazy person trying to figure out what the actual hell is going on?
Talk about confusion, distrust and more distrust. Both at home and now at work. Yes, if he was trying to un-nerve me it is safe to say it worked. I have had suspicions that someone has been tampering with my bike, but I never said anything to anyone, I just thought it. My bicycle has not felt right for a while and not long back the (detail removed by Moderator) completely fell off while I was going up a hill. It had been feeling wobbly for a few days, but I thought it was the pedal and not (detail removed by Moderator). (detail removed by Moderator) Who is doing this? I think I know who it is and I doubt very much it is my work colleague. Why would someone want the other person to think they are going loopy? Silly question…silly, silly me…
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He isn’t my ex Confused123, he is my current boyfriend. Either he did not do the bolts/screws up tight enough when he serviced it at the beginning of the year, or he deliberately tampered with it, or as he suggests (but not likely) that my work colleague has been tampering with my bicycle. I keep it in the small room at work with me.
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Hello deathangel,
It’s a possibility that your boyfriend has tampered with your bike and then is trying to frame a work colleague. You wouldn’t put anything past an abusive man.
My ex- husband used to me cups of tea that tasted weird. I thought there was something wrong with our kettle. Some evenings I would have very strange things happen to my body- the room would start spinning, I would start feeling giddy, one time i couldn’t see out of one eye. It was only after One cup of tea that he made me- it tasted so bad I spat it out, he tried to take it off me and I felt suspicious so I poured it out and there was white powder in the bottom. I asked home what it was. He fell about laughing, he had been doing it for ages he said- putting drugs in my drink-as a joke apparently and I “hadn’t even noticed”. I remember laughing because I always laughed when he laughed. I look back now and realised he could have killed me. I am so glad we are divorced. And I am so angry at myself for getting into another abusive relationship and I am finding it so hard to breal free. This is all I know. Deathangel just be careful- your partner sounds dangerous. X -
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one of my friends’ exes used to “manage” her diabetes meds… basically he took them off her, told people she was “flakey” about taking them so he of course was the big hero and had to “manage” them for her… only sometimes he would purposely not give it to her and so sometimes so she would have a seizure in public, then as she lie fitting, he would tell people “she is not good about taking her insulin” and he would proceed to act the lovely gent and help her out
these men are monsters
she eventually got away from him and i doubt she’s “forgotten” to take her insulin since x
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A lady I met had Parkinson’s. She wax quitexelderly, and her husband even older; but she came to a group saying that she felt she was going loopy, but knew deep down that her husband was hiding her meds. They kept disappearing, and she had to hunt high and low for them. Meanwhile, her tremors were worsening.
I remember feeling appalled that a woman of that age had to endure all that; and even more appalled that a man of his age was still capable of conniving abuse. I suppose once an abuser, always an abuser. She said she’d suffered four decades of his abuse. That seemed so awful.
My ex used to pick (detail removed by moderator), and liked to cook them up. I was always half scared of eating his cooking at those times. I wondered if he might have accidentally on purpose slipped in a lethal one- and feigned innocence.
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