Hi Lostandscared,
Thank you for posting and welcome to the forum. I’m sorry to read what’s happening in your relationship. You are explaining abusive behaviour by your partner. You have explained emotional abuse and very threatening behaviour. When someone is abusive, they are not like it all the time, which makes it confusing. But sadly the cycle of abuse always continues, and normally gets worse over time. His behaviour now suggests that he could become physically abusive in the future.
If you feel you can, I suggest calling the 24 hour Freephone Helpline on 0808 2000 247 to speak to a female support worker in confidence. They won’t tell you what to do, but can talk through your situation and signpost you to the other relevant support.
Keep posting,
Lisa
WA Forum Moderator