My IDVA was the one that encouraged me to leave. She stuck it out. She said I was her longest ever client! That’s how good she was. All the doubts, all the disbelieving, she just stuck it out. When you get a good one they are gold dust. I think no harm done to meet and see what you think. They have so much experience of the system and the local area and the system working in the local area and all the other agencies including police and solicitors, I think if you can have one, then go for it. Hope you’re ok? xx