I’m new to this forum. I’ve been living with emotional abuse for years which has intensified since lockdown. Am constantly being shouted at, called names, worthless piece of ****, c***, everything you can think of. In front of my children too. Just recovering from major surgery but husband is the one resting/ lying down/ saying he’s tired. I’m stunned by his selfishness. When I became ill the abuse intensified as he blames me for being weak for being ill in the first place. I’m now recovering physically but am sure my health is being affected by his behaviour. I’m simply refusing to do the lifting/ moving I’ve been told not to as it will jeopardise my recovery. I’ve got support from friends and am planning to divorce him in the new year. I just wanted to see if anyone else has had similar experiences. I believe my husband has n**********c personality disorder.