It’s as if he has a sixth sense that I was feeling really happy today.

[Numbnumb]

Today I have been in such a good mood. Planning a birthday, having lots of messages with friends, best I’ve felt for a long long time. Then I get a text from him, the first kind of personal, emotional text that wasn’t natter of fact about kids since seperation (detail removed by Moderator) “am I OK?”. So that has rattled my good day. I’m going to ignore it and not reply, but then doing that makes me feel mean. You’d swear he knew I was too happy.

[KIP.]

Block him and enjoy your day x

[Numbnumb]

I am continuing to enjoy my day x just ironic as he seemed to make it his life’s mission to ensure I WASN’T OK when we were together 🙂

[Eggshells]

Hi Numbnumb

I would also advise blocking him. Use a 3rd party for child care arrangements.

Well done for ignoring him. Put him behind you and have a lovely day, a lovely tomorrow and many more lovely days ahead. xx

[Neueranfang]

I can relate to you Numbnumb.
My Ex did exactly the same (detail removed by Moderator).
I blocked him ages ago but he emailed me:
‘(detail removed by Moderator)’
I also decided to ignore it but I felt horrible afterwards.As if I’m the cruel one
x*x

[Eggshells]

Neuronfang and Numbnumb, you are not the cruel ones. You are the stable, sensible and strong ones and you are the kind ones for not giving false and confusing messages to your ex’s by responding to them. Huge respect to both of you.

[Darcy]

Hi beautiful Angel… Numbnumb,
I agree with the other ladies… block him and focus on you.
You are not going mad though… when you have been with someone for a long time, especially in the intensity of an abusive relationship your energy is connected. So the shift in your energy of becoming happier will give him an uncomfortable feeling that he probably can’t explain but he would have felt it.
If you are interested in this I would recommend doing a cord cutting mediation, google Energetic cords or reading the Emotion Code by Bradley Nelson.
Everyone we meet in life we energetically connect to, unfortunately some cords are harder to release than others.
Sending you continued love and support
Darcy xx

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