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As predicted, here we go again. This time I’ve discovered he’s not paid his (removed by moderator) the last few weeks, he only pays an absolute minimal amount as it is, but as a result our rent money isn’t there. Obviously it stupidly comes out of my bank so I’ll get the charges, but I don’t have any savings left to cover the rent (as I’ve had to single handedly pay for childcare with no support from him). When I tried to raise it with him I got that my (removed by moderator) child’s parent needs to contribute, what on earth. I don’t know what to do, I’m at a financial breaking point.
On top of this he came home (removed by moderator) unexpectedly and ripped off the (removed by moderator) and another (removed by moderator) is accusing me of spying on him…(removed by moderator).
Of course I tried to ask him to leave and got abuse and shouted at, saying that’ll never happen. Then he starts trying to film me to get a reaction, all infront of our child. My older child is scared and fed up.
I need this all to end. Trying to contact various places (bank, womansaid etc) but I’m also aware it’s Friday, a long weekend lies ahead.
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It sounds like he may be gathering evidence against you. Just as you can ring the police to report him, he can do the same to you. So don’t give him a reaction. Keep a journal a photograph any damage he as done. You need to gather evidence. Talk to your GP about his abuse, get it logged. Is the house in your name? Is it joint tenancy? There are rules around domestic abuse so get some legal advice as you may be able to have him removed.
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