its starting to

[betterdays]

Properly sink in now and it’s scared me in a way that it’s true what I were told yrs ago I were living with an abuser!!!!! The more I read on here were all saying the same I’m stunned he’s been playing me like a fiddle. I’m fighting back though now. He will NEVER do that to us AGAIN. How I’ve let him in before to ruin our life’s. I’m feeling hateful towards him. I’ve read a post in here tonight and something made me see it just can’t be my fault after all. I’m cracking right on now he’s going to see a different me!!!!!! X*x

[Whathaveidone]

Good for you betterdays! We don’t deserve this treatment and it is not.our.fault.

[Serenity]

So glad.

I read recently that accepting it’s not us is the first step to healing x

[Topaz]

Really glad it has started to sink in. You are definitely not the problem. It will be a hard road though so be strong 💗 It is the first step X

[betterdays]

Thanks topaz my hearts still breaking though it’s torn apart. He had over took my brain. In fact they were times when my boys used to speak to me and I used to stare straight through them. As my mind were just on him. I’m stunned that i let this piece of rubbish ruin my life he’s got away with it x

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