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    • #152071
      Anonymous
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      Which I feel positive about. I need this personally for me . I have bereavement counselling for the loss of my son separately provided by the hospice. This is for me and to help me talk through the abuse from previous relationships I’ve endured. I need this time alone to look after myself. Stuff my ex abuser sadly he will never change …but he did so much mental and emotional damage even while I were grieving the loss of my son. Xx

    • #152098
      Strongenough
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      Counselling can be such a powerful tool to help you through your trauma. I hope this aids your road to recovery. I can’t imagine how hard it must be grieving the loss of a child along with the trauma of the abuse.

      I wish you all the best in your journey. Your doing amazing to get to where you are. X

    • #152099
      nbumblebee
      Participant

      I see a private counsellor.
      Im not gonna lie its hard but I wouldnt be able to get up each day without her help and support so its worth it. Ive been going almost 2 years and still cant talk but she is amazing and we try lots and lots of different techniques she says we will keep going until I find one. We are getting there.
      It helps it really does help and she allows me to work through what i need to.
      Well done took courage to do that sweetie be proud of that. Take your time it wont be eady and some days you feel pants after some days you feel great after roll with it embrace it and give it time. You are worth it xxxx

    • #152167
      Apricot
      Participant

      I lost my mum quite recently and going through all of this without her has been so hard. I can’t imagine what it’s like for you to have lost your son, I am so sorry. I have been having counselling for the abuse and it has been a life line. The lady I speak to is so knowledgeable and compassionate. I feel I can say anything and she understands. She really helped me to see that it was abuse and that I wasn’t to blame. I hold onto that. I’ve contacted Cruse to request bereavement counselling now as I am struggling with the loss of my mum, feelings of guilt and a lot of bad dreams about my old life. It’s all muddled up together. I hope we both get the help we need xx

    • #152196
      StrongLife
      Participant

      Keep going. Counselling with right counsellor can be excellent. I hope you find someone soon.

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