I’ve left

This topic contains 9 replies, has 10 voices, and was last updated by Profile photo of Goggleeyes Goggleeyes 5 days, 17 hours ago.

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  • #68019
    Profile photo of Ssss Ssss 

    We left today got out… he guessed and didn’t think was going to get away…. but we are going to new place now…I feel soo guilty scared and sad…

  • #68021
    Profile photo of Borntobefree Borntobefree 

    Well done for getting out. Its normal to feel like this. I remember when I left I was in a right mess.. But I promise you it does get easier stay strong 💪 hugs X

  • #68029
    Profile photo of KIP. KIP. 

    Well done. Keep looking to a new future x

  • #68030
    Profile photo of  Anonymous

    You’ve done the right thing, this will get better with the right help and support. We’re here for support, to listen. If you need a good rant or a good cry. We’re here, all been there. Xx 💕 DIY hugs xDIY stick to your guns x

  • #68031
    Profile photo of Apricotpoppy Apricotpoppy 

    Thats great news Ssss. So hard to do but you and your kids are out. Take care and keep strong xx

  • #68076
    Profile photo of Lisa Lisa 
    Main Moderator

    Hi Ssss,

    It is great to hear you have left, it must have taken such courage- well done. I hope you arrived at your new home safely. It is natural to feel a range of emotions so try to give yourself time. The 24hr National Domestic Violence Helpline is available on 0808 2000 247 if talking things through would help. This can often be a dangerous time so please contact the police if you feel at risk at any time.

    Please do let us know how you are when you are able to.

    Best wishes,


  • #68084
    Profile photo of thelightinme thelightinme 

    I’m so glad for you Ssss. I’ve only recently left myself and can empathise with your feelings. Keeping busy is helping me, but I don’t think it’s good to sweep my feeling under the carpet either, so I’m waiting to see a counsellor. Love and strength to you xx

  • #68088
    Profile photo of Iwantmeback Iwantmeback 

    Hi Ssss, I’m so happy for you, and very proud of what you have done💜💜
    Enjoy the peace in your new home. I how i find the courage to do the same someday too.

    IWMB 💕💕

  • #68089
    Profile photo of Tiffany Tiffany 

    Well done. So glad for you.

  • #68396
    Profile photo of Goggleeyes Goggleeyes 

    Congratulations on your new life, SO proud of you!! Be gentle with yourself emotions are jumbled and raw but it will get better, lighter feeling and brighter. I’ve been there too Xx

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