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    • #117898

      Not sure why I’m here to be honest. Well I do but I dunno.

      After (detail removed by moderator) of all abuse except sexual I get so low and he is still here and free and he started being selfish again and I called him a name and he slapped me across face. Am I a bad person. I didn’t mean call him names I just can’t take it. It’s all about his comfort, never mine. I do everything cos he selfish and he admits he’s selfish with pride. Living with crazy

    • #117902

      You’re not a bad person at all. But in the end, you end up not liking the person you become.

      There’s a bit of a myth that DV victims don’t defend themselves. It’s not true. I defended myself, called him names, even physically defended myself. I’m not proud of it, but we’re not made of stone.

      It’s what they do. Push you to your absolute limits and then when they get a reaction, suddenly they’re the victim.

      Do you have an escape plan? Talk to WA about that. It won’t get any better and you don’t deserve it.

      • #117906

        He will say…I can’t handle being called names so I do it to her

    • #117986

      They’ve got an excuse for everything.

      Are you getting any help? Do you have anyone to talk to?

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